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Candles are not our only jam, self-care and writing is another passion of ours. Brandy Talks, the blog is personable and relatable. The content is mainly derived from the moments following post-cannabis consumption. Through reading my blogs, you will learn more about self-care for the mind, body and soul. Topics range from spirituality to motherhood. If you are interested in leaning into your intuition and following your own path authentically + unapologetically then you have come to the right place.

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Female ashing a cannabis joint into a wooden ash tray on top of a wooden table. A blue triangular cystals sits behind ash tray and a selenite stick directly in front.

Female ashing a cannabis joint into a wooden ash tray on top of a wooden table. A blue triangular cystals sits behind ash tray and a selenite stick directly in front.

Toke + Tell Episode 4 - Cannabis Helped me Get Quiet

I find myself in a position sitting on the couch, fresh off two hits from my dab pen. Taking notice of how tired my body feels, along with weakness and nausea. I felt great prior to smoking. Was it the cannabis that threw me off? I take a few deep breaths before I am met with the thought "this is just my anxiety creeping up on me". Ever since I had my second child, I have been experiencing ridiculous amounts of anxiety, and it is getting to a point where it is preventing me f

Brandy Goncalves

3 days ago4 min read

Toke + Tell Episode 3 - Cannabis Helps Clear the Fog

Toke + Tell Episode 3 - Cannabis Helps Clear the Fog

Toke + Tell Episode 3 - Cannabis Helps Clear the Fog

I was centimeters away from falling off a cliff into a deep body of water with no land in sight. The fog around me was so thick that I could not tell which direction I was heading in. A few more steps in the wrong direction and I would have found myself free-falling straight into that water. I often find myself in this space, sometimes the little scenarios I play in my head about what the situation looks and feels like vary, but more or less, they derive from the same feeling

Brandy Goncalves

Nov 43 min read

A woman smoking outside near a building with the sun partly shining on her.

A woman smoking outside near a building with the sun partly shining on her.

Toke and Tell Episode 2 - Cannabis Helps Me Live Out My Best Life

I'm walking about in my candle studio, and the thought "wow, the universe is really testing me tonight" crosses my mind. I feel as if...

Brandy Goncalves

Oct 83 min read

woman rolling a weed or cannabis joint

woman rolling a weed or cannabis joint

Toke + Tell Episode 1 - Cannabis Makes Me a Better Mother

The consumption of cannabis makes me a better mother.

Brandy Goncalves

Jul 293 min read

woman journaling to-do list near a window and green coffee cup filled with a latte

woman journaling to-do list near a window and green coffee cup filled with a latte

Gain Control of your Life with One Easy-to-Implement Tool

One easy-to-implement tool to gain more control over your life. Use this tool to make your life feel more manageable and prevent burnout.

Brandy Goncalves

Feb 253 min read

Beginner's Guide to Mindset Shifting: Unlock your Inner Power

Beginner's Guide to Mindset Shifting: Unlock your Inner Power

Beginner's Guide to Mindset Shifting: Unlock your Inner Power

A beginner's guide to mindset shifting - what is it, why does it matter and steps you can take to reframe a negative mindset.

Brandy Goncalves

Jan 284 min read

Why Constant Productivity Isn’t Productive – And How to Find Balance

Why Constant Productivity Isn’t Productive – And How to Find Balance

Why Constant Productivity Isn’t Productive – And How to Find Balance

In today’s fast-paced world, we’re told that productivity is the key to success. The pressure to constantly stay busy and achieve more...

therestingwillowco

Jan 74 min read

What's the Deal with Fragrance Oils?

What's the Deal with Fragrance Oils?

What's the Deal with Fragrance Oils?

Fragrance oils are liquid scents that are concentrated, usually used to add aromas to a variety of different products such as candles,...

Brandy Goncalves

Jul 29, 20242 min read

How to Get Better Sleep and Feel More Motivated

How to Get Better Sleep and Feel More Motivated

How to Get Better Sleep and Feel More Motivated

Did you know that the first moments before going to bed and the first moments upon waking up are some of the most important parts of your...

Brandy Goncalves

May 29, 20244 min read

Resisting the Scenic Route

Resisting the Scenic Route

Resisting the Scenic Route

On the night of the eclipse, I found myself going on another trip. These sessions have been hitting me so differently lately, the power...

Brandy Goncalves

May 14, 20243 min read

Is it a Warning Sign or Test?

Is it a Warning Sign or Test?

Is it a Warning Sign or Test?

Take 2: I had these thoughts cross my mind for a new blog post, so I grabbed my laptop, plugged it in and was met with another test. "How...

Brandy Goncalves

May 7, 20243 min read

Activating the Mother's Heart

Activating the Mother's Heart

Activating the Mother's Heart

Healing the heart has been at the forefront lately. Like most people I have put a defense mechanism in place to shield myself from love,...

Brandy Goncalves

Apr 24, 20244 min read

The Year for Healing

The Year for Healing

The Year for Healing

Let's rewind a bit, to this previous weekend as I was making my way to a reiki session, and I heard some really powerful words. After a...

Brandy Goncalves

Apr 16, 20244 min read

In the Midst of Change

In the Midst of Change

In the Midst of Change

There is a life out there I feel destined for and as I continue along my path, I slowly begin to open my eyes to the life I desire. I've...

Brandy Goncalves

Apr 3, 20244 min read

The Healing Mother

The Healing Mother

The Healing Mother

Here we are a few days after the full moon has passed, and I am still trying to ride out the waves of this emotional rollercoaster. Upon...

Brandy Goncalves

Mar 12, 20243 min read

Getting Quiet

Getting Quiet

Getting Quiet

I'm halfway through the day and am struggling to keep moving. I am so angry and tired; I feel as if I have not relaxed or slept in days....

Brandy Goncalves

Mar 4, 20243 min read

Self-sabotage in the Act + 5 Steps to Overcome It

Self-sabotage in the Act + 5 Steps to Overcome It

Self-sabotage in the Act + 5 Steps to Overcome It

I feel like I am stuck in the middle of a battle between the negative and positive sides of myself. Tonight, my mind was quiet enough...

Brandy Goncalves

Feb 19, 20243 min read

My First Theta Healing Experience

My First Theta Healing Experience

My First Theta Healing Experience

I was relieved of my duties and had some time to myself. I decided to finally sit down and watch the video Rebirth by a theta healing...

Brandy Goncalves

Feb 19, 20243 min read

My Relationship with Cannabis

My Relationship with Cannabis

My Relationship with Cannabis

I looked over at what appeared to be creamsicle flavored whip cream, I picked up the can and had myself a little taste. I then looked up...

Brandy Goncalves

Feb 19, 20243 min read

Ebb and Flow

Ebb and Flow

Ebb and Flow

The moon is full tonight, and as I lay here trying to drift off to sleep, I catch a glimpse of the light making its way through the...

Brandy Goncalves

Feb 19, 20242 min read

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